Turning Heads Isn't the Goal. Riding Your Own Ride Is
If you've been riding long enough, you've probably noticed it. The double takes at stoplights, curious looks at gas stations, the surprised expressions when you take off your helmet. For women riders, attention often comes with the territory, whether we ask for it or not, but after years around motorcycles, we've realized something. The riders who turn the most heads usually aren't trying to; they're simply riding their own ride.
When people talk about motorcycles, they often focus on speed, horsepower, or the machine itself. What doesn't get talked about enough is how riding changes the way you carry yourself. There is something powerful about knowing you can throw a leg over a motorcycle and go. It doesn't matter if you're riding across town or across the country. Every ride reminds you that you're capable of more than most people assume.
That confidence shows, and confidence has a way of getting noticed. For women motorcycle riders, there can be an added layer to it. Many of us have walked into dealerships where people assumed we were shopping for someone else. We've stood in parking lots answering questions that male riders rarely hear.
"What made you start riding?"
"Is that your bike?"
"Do you ride by yourself?"